Lily Nadya

• Please stay out of my business or go get a life

• Please stop asking questions…..that I may not answer. I prefer not to answer or talk at this time. Why??? Certainly I have a right to privacy…………

• I could say …that’s a lot to think about…I’ll think about it some other time….and walk away………..yes …walk away….and don’t smile back……just walk!!!!

• Just make up a bunch of ridiculously unbelievable stuff to tell them, then nod wisely, and go on my way..hehehe

• Ask them, "Why do you want to know?" or just tell them if I wanted you to know I would tell you. How about buzz off! or it’s non of your business! Sometimes you just can’t be kind. Stupid people just don’t know when to back off. Yes they may call you arrogant (if they know what the word means) behind your back but who cares? If it’s none of their business then it’s just that. Sounds like I need to find some intelligent lifeforms to hang around

• Carry on a conversation with them until they pop one of those nosy questions, then just don’t give any answer, who says I have to answer, don’t give any expression or anything else. Why I shall think I owe people something who ask me nosy questions?

• Go bother someone else please…..

I am pissed off right now at nosy people.

A Mom

brings strength and stability

to the family

and a feeling of security to life….

she gives you

a sense of values

and self worth

and a foundation of love

to last a lifetime.

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For your guidance and trust

and your solid advice,

For your labors of love

and for each sacrifice,

And for giving it all, Mom,

without thinking twice,

You’re loved

and admired so much.

Happy Birthday!!!

With All Our Love.

Sincerely,

Both of Us

Assalamualaikum Mak,

Happy 56th Birthday!!!!Semoga dengan bertambahnya usia, bertambahlah iman dan amal kita. Mudah-mudahan sisa-sisa hidup yang selebihnya akan dapat dimanfaatkan ke jalan yg diredhai ALLAH S.W.T……lorong-lorong yang penuh dengan duri tetap INSYALLAH,penhujungnya ialah kesudahan yang sangat indah….itulah janji ALLAH S.W.T dan siapakah yang lebih tepat janjinya melainkan ALLAH S.W.T.  I’am so glad to have you as my mother. So understanding and caring. Thanks for those ears for hearing all my problems. Thanks for your guidance and your solid advice. Thanks for your love and for each sacrifies you gone through to raise us up!!!Thanks for the words that never failed to comfort us. Thank you for everything!!!!MAY ALL YOUR PRAYERS BEING GRANTED BY ALLAH S.W.T. Semoga dipanjangkan umur serta dimurahkan rezeki. AMIN….MAY ALLAH’S BLESSINGS BE WITH YOU ALL THROUGH THE YEAR!!!! I pray for your health, iman and success. Semoga mendapat kesejahteraan di dunia dan akhirat. Amin..

With Love,

Your daughter,

Nadia

Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.
Only you know what is best for you.
Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart.
Cling to them as you would your life; for without them,
life is meaningless.
Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past
nor for the future.
By living your life one day at a time, you live all of the days of
your life.
Do not give up when you still have something to give.
Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.
Do not be afraid to encounter risks.
It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.
The quickest way to receive love is to give love.
The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.
In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
Do not dismiss your dreams.
To be without dreams is to be without hope.
To be without hope is to be without purpose.
Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where
you have been, but also where you are going.
Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored
each step of the way.
~anonymous~

• To mark at least one day a month as "Buy Nothing Day"….it’s a must dear…..spend wisely please….

• I will take a good care of my health and will be fit the whole year…Insyallah

• I will enjoy my life more, be optimistic and happy….

• I will be more helpful to others and spend some part of my earnings in charity….yes, definitely!!!!

• I will be organized and disciplined.

• I will spend more fruitful time with my family and good friends and will make every effort to make them happy. …this is what I did all this while….hehehe

• To trim down having fast or junk food and stick to food having good nutrients…..boleh ke????

TO ALL , THE Journey is finally over!

Without the support, love, and guidance of many people, I would not have completed this study. It is with humility that I acknowledge their contributions.

First, to my husband, Helmi, who encouraged me in every aspect. He listened, he sympathized and he constantly told me I would make it. In a year of marriage, he has always brought me sunshine.

Secondly, special accolades to my beloved parents and my brother, Gaddafi who endured this long process with me, always offering encouragement, support and love.

Finally, I am blessed with wonderful friends who listened (probably more than they wanted to) about my study and who gave me confidence that I would succeed.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

**I’m so relieved to be done with it, because it’s finally time that I start living life

Permulaan tahun 2007 aku disurami dengan berita pemergian tok-ku, AllahyarhamTuan Haji Abdul Rahman yang telah kembali ke rahmatullah pada 6/1/2007 jam 5.00 pagi di 104-B, Jalan P.Ramlee, Penang.Anak- anak, cucu-cucu, sanak saudara serta sahabat handai meratapi pemergiannya.  Semoga roh Allahyarham ditempatkan bersama-sama
roh orang-orang yang beriman dan dirahmati Allah…

Al-Fatihah…

There comes a time when you must stand alone. You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams. You must be willing to make sacrifices. You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved. Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged. There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities. Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better. Be confident enough that you won’t settle for a compromise just to get by. Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life. Don’t stand in someone else’s shadow when it’s your sunlight that should lead the way.

Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don’t know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary, because it means you’ve made a difference.

It’s easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth.

Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.

Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progressed. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth.